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No Resolutions Required: Honouring Winter’s Call to Rest and Reflect

John Reeve-Hayes

The start of a new year often brings with it a wave of cultural pressure: resolutions to make, goals to set, and changes to enforce. But what if this January, instead of racing towards action, you allowed yourself the grace to pause?

At this dark time of the year, nature itself is at rest. The earth lies dormant, quietly conserving energy for the vibrant awakening of spring. Following nature’s lead, we too can use this time to slow down, nurture ourselves, and prepare for the months ahead.


Take time to rest

Lessons from Winter: The Power of Rest

In winter, the natural world retreats. Trees shed their leaves, animals hibernate, and the soil takes a break from growth. This seasonal pause isn’t just necessary—it’s vital. It ensures that, come spring, life can flourish with renewed vigour.

For us, winter offers the same opportunity. It’s a chance to rest deeply, reflect on the year that’s passed, and prepare mentally and emotionally for the energy that spring will bring. Just as nature doesn’t rush its cycles, neither should we force ourselves into immediate action when the season calls for stillness.


Nature knows: the depths of winter is a time to rest

January: A Time for Reflection

Instead of diving into resolutions, why not take this month to reflect? Pause and ask yourself:

  • What did I learn about myself last year?

  • What do I want to carry forward into the new year?

  • What can I let go of?

Use this time to journal your thoughts, meditate, or simply sit quietly and embrace the slower pace. By reflecting now, you’ll be in a stronger, clearer position to act when spring’s energy begins to rise.


To Reflect or to Resolve?

Prioritising Self-Care in Winter

Self-care is especially important during the dark months of the year. By nurturing your body and mind now, you’re building a solid foundation for the future. Some ideas for winter self-care include:

  • Holistic Therapies: A relaxing massage or Reiki session can help release tension and restore balance.

  • Mindful Rituals: Light candles, enjoy warm herbal teas, or use aromatherapy to create a calming atmosphere.

  • Gentle Movement: Stretching, yoga, or slow walks in nature can keep your body active without pushing it too hard.

Remember, self-care isn’t selfish—it’s essential. Taking time for yourself this winter is an act of compassion that will empower you to face the year ahead with strength and clarity.


How will you prioritise self care?

Planning for Spring’s Renewal

January is a wonderful time to make plans and set intentions for the year without feeling pressured to act on them immediately. Think of it as planting seeds: you’re laying the groundwork now so that, when spring arrives, you can grow with the season.

Set aside time to dream, brainstorm, and create a vision for the months ahead. Let your plans evolve naturally, leaving space for flexibility and spontaneity.


Pause. Plan. Prepare.

An Invitation to Pause

This January, I invite you to join me in rejecting the pressure for instant resolutions. Instead, embrace the quiet beauty of winter and allow yourself to rest and reflect. Let go of the idea that you must have everything figured out right now. Trust that, just like the earth, you’ll find your energy when the time is right.

If you’d like to support your self-care journey, consider visiting Mantra Wellbeing for a relaxing therapy session. Together, we can create a space where you can rest, recharge, and prepare for the brighter days ahead.

Wishing you a restful January filled with grace, warmth, and self-compassion.



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